God's Mysterious Ways

The man slowly looked up. This was a woman clearly accustomed
to the finer things of life. Her coat was new.
She looked like she had never missed a meal in her life.
His first thought was that she wanted to make fun of him,
like so many others had done before.


"Leave me alone," he growled... To his amazement,
the woman continued standing. She was smiling --
her even white teeth displayed in dazzling rows.


"Are you hungry?" she asked. "No," he answered sarcastically.
"I've just come from dining with the President.. Now go away."


The woman's smile became even broader.


Suddenly the man felt a gentle hand under his arm.
"What are you doing, lady?" the man asked angrily.
"I said to leave me alone.


Just then a policeman came up.
"Is there any problem, ma'am?" he asked..


"No problem here, officer," the woman answered.
"I'm just trying to get this man to his feet.
Will you help me?"


The officer scratched his head.
"That's old Jack. He's been a fixture around
here for a couple of years. What do you want with him?"


"See that cafeteria over there?" she asked.
"I'm going to get him something to eat and
get him out of the cold for awhile."


"Are you crazy, lady?" the homeless man resisted.
"I don't want to go in there!" Then he felt strong hands
grab his other arm and lift him up.


"Let me go, officer. I didn't do anything.."


"This is a good deal for you, Jack," the officer answered.
"Don't blow it."


Finally, and with some difficulty,
the woman and the police officer got Jack
into the cafeteria and sat him at a table in a remote corner.
It was the middle of the morning, so most of the breakfast
crowd had already left and the lunch bunch had not yet arrived.


The Manager strode across the cafeteria and stood by his table.
"What's going on here, officer?" he asked." What is all this,
is this man in trouble?"


"This lady brought this man in here to be fed,"
the policeman answered.


"Not in here!" the Manager replied angrily.
"Having a person like that here is bad for business."


Old Jack smiled a toothless grin. "See, lady. I told you so.
Now if you'll let me go. I didn't want to come here
in the first place."


The woman turned to the cafeteria Manager and smiled.
"Sir, are you familiar with Eddy and Associates,
the banking firm down the street?"


"Of course I am," the Manager answered impatiently.
"They hold their weekly meetings in one of my banquet rooms."


"And do you make a goodly amount of money providing food
at these weekly meetings?"


"What business is that of yours?"


I, sir, am Penelope Eddy, President and CEO of the company."


"Oh.."


The woman smiled again..
"I thought that might make a difference."



(sorry, if it takes some time to read)



She glanced at the cop who was busy stifling a laugh.
"Would you like to join us in a cup of coffee
and a meal, officer?"


"No thanks, ma'am," the officer replied. "I'm on duty."


"Then, perhaps, a cup of coffee to go?"


"Yes, ma'am. That would be very nice."


The cafeteria manager turned on his heel.
"I'll get your coffee for you right away, officer.."


The officer watched him walk away...
"You certainly put him in his place," he said.


"That was not my intent... Believe it or not,
I have a reason for all this."


She sat down at the table across from her amazed dinner guest.
She stared at him intently.


"Jack, do you remember me?"


Old Jack searched her face with his old, rheumy eyes.
"I think so -- I mean you do look familiar."
(rheumy-A watery or thin mucous discharge from the eyes or nose.)


"I'm a little older perhaps," she said.
"Maybe I've even filled out more than in my younger days
when you worked here, and I came through that very door,
cold and hungry."


"Ma'am?" the officer said questioningly.
He couldn't believe that such a magnificently turned out
woman could ever have been hungry.


"I was just out of college," the woman began.
"I had come to the city looking for a job,
but I couldn't find anything. Finally I was down to my last
few cents and had been kicked out of my apartment.
I walked the streets for days.
It was February and I was cold and nearly starving.
I saw this place and walked in on the off chance that
I could get something to eat."


Jack lit up with a smile. "Now I remember," he said.
"I was behind the serving counter.
You came up and asked me if you could work for something to
eat. I said that it was against company policy."


"I know," the woman continued.
"Then you made me the biggest roast beef sandwich that
I had ever seen, gave me a cup of coffee, and told me to go
over to a corner table and enjoy it.
I was afraid that you would get into trouble.
Then, when I looked over and saw you put the price of my food in
the cash register, I knew then that everything would be all right."


"So you started your own business?" Old Jack said.


"I got a job that very afternoon. I worked my way up.
Eventually I started my own business that, with the help of God,
prospered.." She opened her purse and pulled out a business card.
"When you are finished here, I want you to pay a visit to a
Mr. Lyons. He's the Personnel Director of my company.
I'll go talk to him now and I'm certain he'll find something for
you to do around the office.."


She smiled. "I think he might even find the funds to
give you a little advance so that you can buy some clothes and get
a place to live until you get on your feet.
If you ever need anything, my door is always open to you."


There were tears in the old man's eyes.
"How can I ever thank you?" he asked.


"Don't thank me," the woman answered.
"To God goes the glory. He led me to you."


Outside the cafeteria, the officer and the woman
paused at the entrance before going their separate ways..
"Thank you for your help officer," she said.


"On the contrary, Ms. Eddy," he answered.
"Thank you. I saw a miracle today,
something that I will never forget,
And thank you for the coffee."





*REFLECTION*

One good deed deserves another!


When one begins to purposefully perform acts of kindness,
the spirit changes and soon doing good deeds becomes a focal point
for our life; doing good begins to be the same as feeling good.
The periods of emptiness when we search for the ‘meaning of it
all’ begin to fill with acts of kindness.


As you sow, so you reap!

How To Detect a Lie!

Introduction to Detecting Lies:


The following are techniques to tell if someone
is lying and are often used by police, and some
security experts.


This knowledge is also useful for managers,
employers, and for anyone to use in everyday
situations where telling the truth from a lie
can help prevent you from being a victim of
fraud/scams and other deceptions.



Signs of Deception:


Body Language of Lies:


• Physical expression will be limited and stiff,
with few arm and hand movements.
Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their
own body the liar takes up less space.

• A person who is lying to you will avoid making
eye contact.

• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth.
Touching or scratching the nose or behind their
ear. *Not likely* to touch his chest/heart with
an open hand.


Emotional Gestures & Contradiction:

• Timing and duration of emotional
gestures and emotions are off a normal pace.
The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer
it would naturally, then stops suddenly.

• Timing is off between emotions gestures/
expressions and words.

Example: Someone says "I love it!" when
receiving a gift, and then smile after making that
statement, rather then at the same time the
statement is made.

• Gestures/expressions don't match the verbal
statement, such as frowning when saying
"I love you."

• Expressions are limited to mouth movements
when someone is faking emotions (like happy,
surprised, sad, awe)instead of the whole face.

For example;
when someone smiles naturally their whole face
is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and
forehead push down, etc.


Interactions and Reactions:

• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent
person will often go on the offensive.

• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser
and may turn his head or body away.

• A liar might unconsciously place objects
(book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.


Verbal Context and Content:

• A liar will use your words to make answer a
question. When asked, "Did you eat the last cookie?"
The liar answers, "No, I did not eat the last cookie."

•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be
truthful: " I didn't do it" instead of
"I did not do it"

• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making
direct statements. They imply answers instead of
denying something directly.

• The guilty person may speak more than natural,
adding unnecessary details to convince you...
they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the
conversation.


• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a
monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the
pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of
the words in a statement.

• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax
and grammar may be off. In other words, his sentences will
likely be muddled rather than emphasized.



Other signs of a lie:

• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject
of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along
willingly and becomes more relaxed.
The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person
may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will
want to back to the previous subject.

• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.



Final Notes: Obviously, just because someone exhibits one
or more of these signs does not make them a liar.
The above behaviors should be compared to a
persons base (normal) behavior whenever possible.

*Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss;
after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when
it is obvious that someone is lying to you.*